We are living in a modern world, world with great achievements on one hand, and world with great deal of problems on the other hand. Progress made recent decades should bring mankind prosperity, progress, peace and happiness. Should but didn’t.  There are a many problems that modern man suffers from. Stress, bad nutrition, lack of exercises, lack of free quality time, lack of love …. and so on and so on.  These malfunctions produced by modern living are following us in every aspect of our life. We will discuss here about some of them.

 

 

Fear of public speaking
 

     You are sitting on some public presentation, watching hansom dynamic person presenting in front of all those people. You think how lucky he or she is, having that skill since he’s/she’s birth. Yes, you think that effective and smooth public speakers are born to be.
     You cannot be more far away from the true. Nobody is born to be something. Yes, certain affinity or talent, but without working and polishing that talent, nothing can be achieved. Every public presenter is growing through he’s / she’s presentation. Every presentation is a step ahead toward effective speaker.  Every famous public presenter or speaker would admit that sometimes they have “something in their stomach going up and down and all around”. They are nervous too, just like everybody is in front very important presentation. But difference with effective presenters is that they have learnt ability and way to sort and channelize nervous negative trends in their body and transfer it into effective positive stimulus.  It is their guide toward positive outcome of their goal – effective presentation.  
     To speak in front of audience, no matter how small, for ordinary people, is something that they would rather avoid. But there is no need to panic. Some amount of fear is positive to woke up adrenalin in you and help you focus on your goal. Use that fear and make it your ally, not your worst enemy. Confront your fears – is first thing that every psychiatrist will tell you. By confronting, you have no fear, at least no fear that could bring you down. Everybody imagine their self that will say or do something embarrassing, something not common and inadequate for the situation. But guess what? Life is combination of adequate semi adequate and inadequate situations. Nothing that you can say or do in small amount of time can ruin your carrier in a blink of an eye. Making mistake will make you more human and closer to your audience. Don’t be afraid, you cannot make such a fool of yourself and get public rejection in such short time. One of the fears of public speakers is imagined situation that you will not know to answer correct on the questions asked. When you work hard, you know all the answers needed, just let them out.
     People that frequently perform public presentation, have some tricks and tips to give you to make your presentation more effective. Several of those tips will relate to feel the place in which you are going to present.  Take a walk across the room when there is no audience, try to breed deeply as strong as you can and visualize your successful and effective public presentation.
     Accept in a blink of an eye that there is small possibility you will look like some kind of street fool that everybody laughs.  And then tell to your self - people love fools because they produce laugh and joy. Those are positive feelings. And just in the end tell yourself that foolish situation with you in a lead role is not probable to happen. It probably won’t happen.

 


 

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